Enjoying a nice walk along the Arizona Canal the other day to soak in our perfect March weather, I noticed an unusually tall 70-something-old man approaching. He was dressed a bit like Gilligan and looked nice enough. (Now that I think of it, can anyone really look threatening wearing a skipper’s hat?) Either way… “Good morning!” I greeted him with that level of enthusiasm you can so easily muster on the perfect day. “Actually,” he sneered back at me “it is afternoon.” My first thought was that perhaps I had been strolling a little slower than usual, so I dialed my I-Pod to its clock: 11:04. My next thought was “Seriously? A stranger gives you a heartfelt hello, and your best response is to correct them?” And an incorrect correction at that, mind you.
We are a Nation obsessed with perfection. Starbucks is even building their current marketing campaign around it. Right and wrong, correct and incorrect – just think about all of the words and phrases we have at our disposal to describe all the ways that something or someone isn’t quite up to par. We look for the perfect job, the perfect spouse, the perfect schools, the perfect house… Judging shows like “American Idol” and “Dancing with the Stars” top the ratings and feed our need to critique.
But in our search for perfection, we are ignoring a conundrum of sorts. Because isn’t the truth that by its very nature, perfectionism itself is a flaw?
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